I'm horny all the time and recently i always initiate sex with my fiance, when i ask him about it he says?

he is always horny also but never initiates it or lets me know. we have been together for a long time an both experienced but why does he never initate sex anymore? We have sex about once every other day but I feel like I am never good enough but he says he does not want to be forceful since he has known my past relationships and how I was raped but I still need to feel wanted from him initially....