Is this just a coincidence?

Basically this might sound silly and very stupid but i think that god doesn't want me to go otu chilling. I was supposed to be going thorpe park with some friends but some dropped out which made me frustrated so i didn't go, only 2 mates went with their cousins, they nearly got robbed during the trip (mayb if i went same would have happened to me), then i was supposed to go to a party with some other friends but i realised i had no bus fair, i decided to use an old one and try and get on, i went to the bus stop and it started to rain all of a sudden and the bus didnt come (i waited 15 minuted for the bus in light rain), turns out my friends that did go drank alcohol for the first or second time and got wasted (if i went maybe i would have got drunk even though im not suppsed to drink-religious reasons). then i was gnna go drayton manor park this saturday, turns out i couldn't go becuase the tickets were on my elder brothers name who had to be present at the park with proof so that got delayed aswell,.. also something strange happened to me this morning, i was half awake when i felt a pressure on my body, my body froze and i couldnt move a muslce, my eyes were open and the more i tried to move the more pressure i felt, i felt soo scared for the first time and i was sweating like crapp! wtf is going on?!!